Finding An Unexpected Connection On ATW - A Buyer's Perspective

By Blonde_bombshells_b**ch 780 views 12th Jul 2024

Buyer Buyers’ Perspective Finding An Unexpected Connection On ATW - A Buyer's Perspective

This blog is about being a buyer on ATW and finding a connection with a seller and forming a truly remarkable and cherished friendship.

So my journey to the site started 6 or 7 years ago when I began buying used socks on another platform. From that first pair I purchased I knew my kink was used socks and everything about them. It became too difficult to purchase on that platform, so I stopped purchasing. I found ATW after somewhat of a break from purchasing, set up an account and started looking on the dash. I couldn’t believe how many beautiful items and sellers and so many different things there were to purchase. I spent about 2 months on the site before actually making my first purchase, I guess it was all new and I was a bit nervous about it to be honest. My first purchase was easy and went smoothly and from a great seller.

It wasn’t long after I received my first review that a seller Blonde_bombshell messaged me outlining what she offered. After a few back and forth messages I decided to do some tasks for her. She then asked if I wanted to do a weekly purchase of 2 tasks per day. As a manager and a small business owner I found doing tasks a strange relief from always being in control and telling others what to do. I agreed and became her slave. Changed profile pic and name as well as bio to show that I was owned and slave to her. For three fantastic months I was slave and owned doing all tasks as required and enjoyed doing them and interacting with BB on a daily basis. During this time, I also started to purchase items from her and was blown away by them. I remember asking her if there was ever a task that no one had completed for her. Her reply was get the initials BB tattooed somewhere. I was a bit taken back by that and thought a tattoo was permanent LOL. A couple of weeks after that I had decided that I wanted to do it, I wanted her initials as I could feel we were becoming more than buyer and seller. I didn’t tell her I was getting it done, it was a surprise for her. I sent a pic as soon as I had it done, and she couldn’t believe that I had actually done it. I felt a sense of achievement and loyalty having the initials.

Not long after this a received a diagnosis of testicular cancer. I underwent the necessary procedures and am now all clear. It was a very tough time and through that p****d BB was there checking in several times a day to make sure I was ok and if she could do anything for me. I struggled with the treatment and the whole p****d and in haste deleted my account from ATW. Still talking with BB I re-joined and made a new account. There’s no doubt she helped immensely with that p****d and I will always owe her for helping me get through that p****d.

We stopped doing tasks at about the same time, but we still messaged every day. From there our connection started to grow and we became friends.

I then made a mistake and almost lost our friendship. I still to this day regret and don’t like talking about that p****d of time.

We both mutually decided to give our strange and unexpected friendship another chance. I am so thankful that BB gave me another chance this is the point when I realised how important our friendship was. It was at this time I gave her my exclusivity and loyalty as a buyer and as a friend and I have remained true to that.

Never in a million years would I have thought that I would find the most amazing friend, although I still purchase a lot of BBs items I am her friend first and buyer second and throughout our time not once has she told me to buy anything she is the most respectful person. When I joined the site, I wasn’t looking for a connection or friendship and also never expected it to happen. Our friendship grows from strength to strength and becomes more important every day and we will always remain friends. Now BBs initials mean so much more and I am proud to have them always. Thankyou Blonde_bombshell for always being there for me and being the best friend I could ever have.

I am so thankful for ATW as without this site I wouldn’t have made a best friend and found someone I care about so much. This site can be so much more than just buying used items if you let it. The experience of buying is so much better if and when you find that special seller that you connect with.

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I am exclusive and loyal to my beautiful friend Blonde_bombshell she means everything to me and always will. I will always worship her feet and perfectly scented socks and panties....

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ILUV2BUY Great story triple B, thanks for sharing. 🫡🫡 Look after blondie 👍

Goddessoftemptation @YrFavSideChick I didn't tag you in my comment to your comment. Oopsie 🤣🥰

Goddessoftemptation @Blonde_bombshells_bitch beautifully worded! Kudos and thank you so much for sharing your experience❤️

Blonde_bombshells_bitch The blog is about my experience as a buyer with a simply amazing seller. Not every buyer or seller will want anything more than a business transaction. I never expected to find a friendship or that it was part of any deal . I still pinch myself that i have found a great friend on this site. I had no expectations of friendship or have any expectations of friendship it was simply a connection that happened over time unexpectedly. Our friendship is much more than the buyer and seller that we started out as. Do I take advantage of that friendship absolutely not and never will. I am a loyal buyer that purchases a lot of @blonde_bombshells items and have done so for a long time i respect her way to much to take advantage of our friendship in fact she knows that if she ever needs anything all she has to do is ask but she has also never taken advantage of me. I support her every week and have done for many months now and will continue to do so because i want to and she has never asked for this i do it because i care and we are friends. Beyond atw we are and will remain friends

Goddessoftemptation I understand what you are saying but this blog is simply about buyers who do connect with sellers on a higher level. There are some buyers that you just connect with on a much deeper level and are able to build a trustworthy relationship/friendship with. As a seller, you get to make that call on your own. If your willing to be vulnerable and allow buyers to get to know you or connect with you on a higher more meaningful level. Business is business yes... But, being the seller you get to be in charge of how much of yourself your willing to give to a buyer, is it worth it? I have made a very serious and deep connection here with a buyer whom I would trust with my life. Being safe on this site is number one and of course you should be careful.... When the connection is there, it's there and you can't ignore it. And from experience I have really reaped serious reward with establishing such a deep connection with said buyer. In fact those are the ones who will pay more. In my experience, that is. <3

YrFavSideChick @Blonde_bombshell I wasn't saying that you were taken advantage of at all. I've had buyers want to be friends and talk to me but they didn't want to purchase anything. I'm friendly with buyers that purchase from me, but we are not friends, if that makes sense. So I don't want buyers to think that they deserve a friendship or that it's part of the deal.

KinkySAHM84 @YrFavSideChick definitely entitled to your opinion. My clients that have become wonderful friends are my best clients and they have never taken advantage of me once. We have connected on many other levels than kinks and naughty fun.

Blonde_bombshell @YrFavSideChick thanks for your opinion but I can assure you not once has @blonde_bombshells_bitch once taken advantage of me, in fact he is my best customer by a mile and I am the one who owes him. He is very good to me.

YrFavSideChick This is a great story, but I don't feel like it fits here. This is a business to me and many sellers here. Friendship is not an option for me. It's too risky to allow a buyer to feel like they can have my attention anytime for free. I understand every seller operates a bit differently; this is just my opinion.

Retelg_1 Hello there 💕 I'm Dreytes I got attractive by your profile and I'm interested in buying your panties, socks, feet-pics, I am open minded and ready to fulfill your fantasy. Message me for special requests. Please get in touch with me on Teleg:-dreytes33

Blonde_bombshell Not me over here crying ❤️❤️ I love this so much. Thank you

MistressAnna Great read thanks for sharing 👏

Twinkle_toes_90 That is so beautiful ❤

KinkySAHM84 Such a good read. As a seller, I'm thankful to say a few of my clients have turned into wonderful friends.

Goddessoftemptation Thank you for the lovely read. It reminded me of a very strong and unbreakable connection I have here 💖💖 so happy you both found each other. It's truly the best feeling 🥰

MumscreationsbyD This is so cute I’m Glad you had her when you needed her and glad that you still are close it makes Things so much more than just a transaction ❤️ great blog x

Aura This is such a lovely read 💕 I’m glad you’ve found such a good friend in Blonde Bombshell ! It sounds like you both take such good care of one another