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Currently taking some time off just for me. But know i'm doing okay :)Not looking for anything right now

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I want to reiterate that these are my personal feelings on the matter. To the best of my knowledge, I don’t know any of the people involved beyond what I’ve seen publicly. I simply shared a personal story that felt relevant to the discussion.

If my Mistress ever returns to ATW, I don’t want people holding her accountable for the things I say or the sides I take. When she was here, I always got her permission before posting, and I would never want anything I say to reflect poorly on her.

I tried to remain as respectful as possible in my original post, and I believe I did. But I also recognize that drama on this site can be tricky, and if I ever say something stupid, offensive, or upsetting, I want everyone to understand that it came from me alone.

LadyKitty is one of the most compassionate, beautiful, and wonderful women I know, and I would hate for anything I say to be unfairly connected to her.

I have no idea what she would have thought of my post—I simply spoke my own mind. That said, I will be changing my name in the meantime and pinning this comment so there is no confusion.

Sorry for the H.R. response, but if i ever said anything that in any way harmed her reputation, i would never forgive myself. So if i ever say anything bad, remember it was me that said it :)

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Happy Day 11 in chastity then day 0 🥺. Had a bad stressful start to the day and then needed to restart the counter after stress relief. Its okay to be firm (pun not intended) with yourself, but always remember chastity and kink are meant to be fun.

Once you release, even when its planned, you will likely go through a wave of emotions and may need some time alone to reset. Though its hard, try your best not to fall off the face of the earth and instead let your dominant or whoever know how you are doing and what you need.

But this is no pity party for me. 😊 I made it to 11 days. My personal top five best. Not a huge personal record but it allows me to feel proud about taking my compulsive habit i did every day, to abstaining for 11 days. There's always time to try again if you like.

So at the end of the day, if you are trying to become better at chastity and you find yourself in a position like mine, you can be firm with yourself, but also remember its meant to be fun. Look back at the fun you had, what you accomplished and allow yourself to feel and recover. Don't beat yourself up unnecessarily. Learn to be a friend to yourself.🤗

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its St. Patrick's Day! Time to wear not a stich of green in my booty shorts and go grocery shopping for cans on the bottom shelf. All whilst exclaiming, "i sure hope no one pinches me! teehee!"

Nah, i like my grocery store too much 🤣.
Enjoy your St. Patrick's Day, everyone! Have fun and be safe!

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just want to thank the atw community again for giving me a way that i can feel safe and explore my submissive side. Making these posts, making connections with wonderful sellers and buyers. When done right with the right people, its such an amazing experience on here and i am so happy i get to share it with you beautiful people.

Happy St. Patricks Day everyone

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Day 10 locked in chastity :) Had a kinky idea on my drive home and thought i would share it in case anyone was interested. Just a note, i am not looking to do it for anyone at this moment.

Chastity bingo cards. Create a 5x5 grid for a buyer after he has locked himself up. The buyer can print it out and submit it for release when there is a bingo. You could put whatever you like on there, paid a loser tax, bought panties from one of your friends, or some sort of task.

i dont think this has been done yet, i saw plenty of other bingo cards. apologies if someone already thought of this and i missed it. But if it hasnt been done yet and you think it sounds good. go for it😊

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Just thought i would post this out. Any subs out there that would like would like to be friends? D/s and kink are so much fun but like a lot of things that are fun, sometimes you need to be careful and make sure you are taking care of yourself between the highs and lows. I'm no expert in any of this, but maybe we can lean on each other from time to time and make sure we are being the best, happy and healthy individuals we can be. Just a thought, no pressure. I only bring it up cause in the past i've come across sub drop and other things in the past where i was lucky that i had a Mistress as well as other submissives and dominant friends to reach out to.

Again, no pressure of course :) hope everyone is having a lovely sunday

hace 3d

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Day 9 of chastity and more personal advice no one asked for 🙂

So, when you go from having a release once or multiple times a day to stopping altogether, your body's production gets a bit confused, trying to keep up with the sudden change. Your balls are gonna swell from not having release. This is known as blue balls—or, if you want to sound fancy, epididymal hypertension. I'd love to say I knew that off the top of my head, but let's be real, I had to look it up.

For me personally, only a few things can relieve it if we aren’t going to have a release:

1. A warm compress or washcloth. The heat helps increase circulation and relieve tension.

2. Pressure. We aren't talking CBT, but some gentle massage and pressure can help ease the discomfort a bit. You're not crushing your boys, but show them just a little bit of firm love. My technique is to take a pair of underwear with a somewhat loose elastic band and let that rest over them gently. Again, not crushing, and switching out to massage with a warm washcloth or compress.

3. Elevation. I like to use the same waistband and place it under the boys to elevate them for a bit when I'm sitting at the computer.

Important note: Discoloration, numbness, or intense pain? That is not blue balls. That means something is wrong with your chastity cage. It’s likely too tight and needs to be taken off. No self-respecting keyholder wants you to go to the E.R. for "toughing it out."

Have fun, be smart, and know that being a good sub means letting your dominant know when her property is being damaged. 🙂

Sorry for going a bit overboard on the dash this time, but this one seemed important and i didn't want to leave anything out

if i missed something or anyone would like to add something please do. Thank you for listening to the ramblings of a locked-up madman. 🤣

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i know i said this before, but a part of me misses working as a nursing assistant. So many nurses go into the field just because they have that energy and want to help people when they are at their worst.

I would work the night shift too, and i think the night shift workers (not an absolute rule) generally are the best kind of introverts. A tiny bit weird in the best of ways

As an added bonus, i got to subtly be subby and make their jobs a little bit easier at the same time. Never called them Mistress or anything like that of course 🤣, but i secretly loved fetching things for them, stocking their shelves, helping take care of their patients :)

But this post isnt about that. It was a hard job but met so many wonderful people along the way. So thank you to all the nurses and healthcare staff on here. You are a special breed of people with good hearts 💖

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Day 8 of chastity with more advice :)
please remember to keep yourselves clean if you are trying chastity. Taking it off to clean is a good thing. In fact, think of it as a test of your obedience 😊Every time you are putting the cage back on, you are following through and taking care of yourself. I've been told some cages can be kept on while cleaned, but for me personally, i think it ought to be washed once a day thoroughly with the cage off. But thats just me.

If you like, you can journal it so your keyholder will know when and where you take it off, and that you are keeping clean for your keyholder. Nobody wants their chastity slave to get a UTI 😊

Take care everyone!

hace 4d

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Day 8 of chastity which means more advice no one asked for 🤣

I think if you want to give up control and try chastity, you ought to realize your hands are gonna want to wander if you had release consistently. Have a plan. A new hobby or goal to do alongside chastity. You are gonna be pent up and frustrated and you'll need to direct your sexual energies elsewhere.

Good news is you have more time on your hands 😉 Might be worth remembering for breaking any habit honestly 🤔

Thanks for listening to my ramblings as i deal with the cage ATW! Appreciate you all!

hace 5d

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I think i came up with a proper kink analogy here.

Kink activities are like a spicy wing challenge. Fun, exciting, delicious and even a bit painful in the best of ways. Sometimes the spicier it is, the more exciting it gets.

Aftercare is the milkshake you get at the end when you know you're all good now at the end and you did a good job and you're safe and healing XD.

Wings and milkshakes are delicious on their own. But amazing when done together in the proper order 😊. Just don't eat wings so spicy they burn up your stomach lining 🤣

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goodnight everyone! 😴

hace 6d

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Back to seven days in chastity 😊. So excited to see how far I go this time. The fire in my gut is back 😍

hace 6d

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Day 6 in chastity on my birthday and i wanted to thank everyone for making me feel so special today😁You are an awesome community that lets me share things i keep secret in the real world. And sometimes having this outlet subby outlet, expressing myself and wearing Mistress' collar are the only things keeping me sane🤣. Have a wonderful day you beautiful people

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I am always trying to make sure i am on my best behavior here and share my chastity journey on the dash when i feel appropriate. Experiences, tips, tricks, review and personal milestones stuff. Do you think its rude or a bit self obsessed for me to share that on here or should i continue and go for it? Note, i am not talking about spamming, never more than 2 posts in 24 hours from me personally.

Go for it! I would love to hear how its going. Go for it. Not to be rude but i don't really care or mind. Don't do it, the dash should be used for buyers and sellers to connect Don't do it. (other, explain in comments if you like)

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Goodnight everyone! before i go to bed i wanted to thank @Lucylou_High_School_Teacher
its my birthday today and i bought a rating. Since i met her she has been kind and easy to talk to. i cant wait to wake up to my rating, i maybe too excited to sleep.😁
It definitely makes spending your birthday in chastity way more fun and enjoyable. Goodnight everybody! Thank you, Miss Lucy!

hace 1sem

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free idea for dommes that have the confidence that a lot of us subby boys dont. We need strong dommes to help us cancel gym cards we no longer need. Strong dominant women that can stand up to the mean muscle dommy mommies anytime fitness keeps on reserve that convince us to stay signed up 🤣

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i am here to provide more chastity advice no one asked for 😁
i highly suggest purchasing an elastic belt on amazon. they are cheap and they make them just for chastity cages. It keeps everything in place and when things start to get uncomfortable you can tighten the belt, loosen it or even take the belt off all whilst leaving the cage on. You'll appreciate the variety on how the cage feels different each way.

i think chastity might be the most trial and error centered hobby i ever had. Hope this helps someone. 🤗

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i want to bring back the word peeper. no longer penis. i'm calling 'em peepers now. that is all... this is where my mind goes when sleep alludes me... goodnight everyone! you are a wonderful community and thank you for putting up with my delirium.

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